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Ginette has turned Thomas around in his battle with pornography online. And for a man without a lady, this is extremely addictive and evil. And in the eyes of God is an abomination pertaining directly to fornication and adultery. If Ginette came into Thomas' life for no other reason than to save his soul, the union well worth it to God.
A single man living alone would inherently and absorb this character defect into his DNA spiritually. Does Thomas feel other men can relate to the devil's pull spiritually on the soul from watching pornography?
It may not seem like an addiction or anything to be concerned about. I beg the difference, and it is an addiction being very cunning powerful, and baffling. And it may seem very easy to break if you are married to your wife, not knowing.
Just because you men are married and watching pornography. Even though men feel that there is nothing wrong with the appearance of other ladies. Wrong wrong wrong, the seventh commandment. "Thou shalt not commit adultery."
Impaired thinking, Satan can justify the means to where you think it is perfectly okay. And all of a sudden, you are in hell for eternity.
Just because you're married does not mean you can watch pornography. And get aroused, and then have sex with your wife. Thinking you entirely satisfy her. And relating it to improving your marriage. Wrong, wrong wrong.
It’s an abomination against God and will NOT get your soul to heaven. And it will lead you eventually astray. Keep in mind that mass
murderers started out watching pornography. Ted Bundy, Jeffrey Dahmer. Just a couple off the top of my head. Jim Jones, the
Jamestown massacre in Africa.
A very evil lousy addiction, and Thomas finds it repulsive to even think of pornography anymore. Or even think of another
lady, in his thinking or his mind. Matthew 5; 28 – But I say unto you. That whosoever looks on a woman to lust after committing adultery with her, already in his heart. 1 John 2; 16 – For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the desire of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.
By meeting Ginette online, Thomas is also fixing up a house and trying to make it a very comfortable home for Ginette and her mother. Very majestic settings amongst "God's country." Thomas continuously reads the Bible, and that is an addiction that Thomas finds himself studying the Bible 8, possibly 10 hours a day. And more shall be revealed.
Romans 14; 10 – 13. Why do you pass judgment on your brother? Or you, why do you despise your brother? For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God; for it is written, "As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God." So then each of us will give an account of himself to God. Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother. Not one omen owed to God shall go unpaid. Luke 6; 37. "Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be doomed; forgive, and you will be forgiven; A passion is never forgotten in heaven above, where eternally, it is reunited, only for the ones who love. 1 Peter 3; 7. Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your husbands; if any
open a not the word, they also may without the word be won by the wives' conversation. Respect and obey your husbands in the same way. Then the husbands, who do not follow the word of God, will want to know God. They will want to know God because their wives live useful
lives, even though they say nothing about God. They will see that you live holy lives and respect your husbands.
Read the Song of Solomon, a short book in the Bible.
Song of Solomon 4; 5 – your two breasts are like two fawns, Twins of a gazelle, that graze among the lilies. Song of Solomon; 11 – your lips drip nectar, my bride; honey and milk are under your tongue; the fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon. Song of Solomon 4; 13 – your shoots are an orchard of pomegranates with all choicest fruits, camphire with spikenard. Song of Solomon 4; 16 – she awake, O North-wind, and come O South-wind! Blow upon my garden, let its spices flow. Let my beloved come to his garden and eat its choicest fruits.
The above exchange was between Solomon and his bride. This is a very erotic moment that some will shy away from due to its sexual and sensual nature. It is romantic poetry, and this is foreplay, and God is encouraging it. Song of Solomon 5;1 – eat, friends, drink, and be drunk with love.
The Scripture above concluded and "potentially" says about sex is good. God thought of everything. The song of Solomon is an erotic book between a husband and his wife. And if you're married, this concise book in the Bible should be read one to another when married. Consensually, in a romantic mood, it can enhance the sensual sexual atmosphere. Thus, if done in any fashion outside of marriage or without mutual consent, it is a sin. And an abomination against God, and not one omen shall go unpaid owed to God, and every soul will be held accountable. What God intended for our pleasure, we must not abuse. For one day, Thomas and Ginette will have children together, God willing.
When Thomas goes to buy a pair of shoes, he does not try them on first. Taking them home and having the faith that they will fit. Thomas will not fornicate with Ginette until after they are married.