How To Love An Addict
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It’s never too late to experience true happiness. You can be happy and feel love and empathy at the same time, for another individual. It takes practice; it takes listening to your inner voice. It takes listening to that faint whisper that speaks to you in the quietest moments, the whisper that most of us cast away or ignore. Learn to listen. One twinge, emotion or feeling is there as a messenger. Please, for your own sake, listen with your ears, with your heart and with your mind.
I am not an expert on addiction. What I have become though, is an expert in managing my own life. I am an expert at making sure that my cup is full. I am an expert at believing that I have made mistakes and forgiven myself for them. I am an expert at making sure I have forgiven others who have wronged me. I am an expert at working toward a higher, richer, better life. I have become my own caretaker, and my own biggest fan.
I still suffer from being a member of the human race, but I think I finally get it. You cannot get drawn into the multitude of little dramas that occur each day. You must peer down from a level of peace and peace of mind, and judge yourself by your response to situations. Risk not responding to every situation, to save yourself; risk responding differently than you ever have, to save yourself; risk losing everything to live a life that is right, a life that is rich and full. Sometimes doing nothing at all is the best response. When you are at peace, the answer will come naturally.
If this seems selfish to you, then you are missing the point entirely. Having and maintaining a better quality of life, only enhances everyone and everything around us. Small miracles occur in a smile, a kind word, or just a gesture of charity. It is okay to be boring. It is okay to take a walk in the evening. It is okay to express your joy when everyone around you is in tears. It is okay to feel good. It is okay to wish for all the riches life has to offer. It is okay to forgive yourself and others. It is okay to leave yesterday in the dust and head for a brand new dawn. It is okay to say no. It is okay, because you are okay.
I was once told that if everyone threw their troubles into a bucket, you would probably reach in and pull yours back. Somebody always has it worse!
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About the Book
How To Love An Addict is a story of understanding. The most painful lessons in life can be the greatest catalyst for change. Because we are human, we all hurt the same, and we must all heal the same. The day by day principles for healing in this book are timeless and have worked for thousands of years. When we understand the universal elements, the magnificence of nature, and our own essential nature, we can come to know balance and find our place in the world, even in the midst of chaos and heartache.
About the Author
This is the story of a mother and her son. The addiction of her youngest son provided some of the most painful, yet encouraging lessons she never thought she’d learn. The process of coping with the conflicting emotions created by watching her child suffer, with those leading her toward her own life path, provided the tools and the courage to share the truthful, yet sometimes painful realities of loving an addict. She is the mother of 4, and grandmother of 6. The road to healing can be long and difficult, but there is nothing that cannot be overcome. There is a lesson in all suffering, crisis, and conflict, if only we pay attention. By sharing this story, she risks the relationship of friends, family and acquaintances, but her hope is that by sharing the knowledge that she has gained, you might be assisted in your journey. Her hope is that you are able to find even one piece of advice within the pages of this book that may help you to be happier. Life is never perfect, and we shouldn’t expect it to be. However, when such incredible suffering is in our midst, we can still make the choice to be happy moment by moment.