Generational Glow

You have the power to create the life you want. It’s not an easy, fast, or immediate process. It is a process that takes patience, time, and space. If you allow this for yourself, your relationships will improve as a natural by-product like the flowers in a meadow growing from the seeds next to them. You release control and rigidity. You focus on bonding and nurturing instead of fixing and controlling—as it is within, so it is without; as above, so below. Repeat after Me Fluid Rights • I have a right to view all my choices as being experiences and not failures. There are no mistakes but only opportunities for learning. • I have a right to stay in my timeline rather than jumping back over to another’s timeline for the sake of keeping someone in my life. • I have a right to treat my life as an ongoing work of art. • I have the right to change my mind. • I have a right to grow and change how and when I want to. • I have a right to change the relationship I have with my own thoughts, beliefs, and values over a lifetime. • I have the right to fluidity—to be in flux throughout my life. • I have a right to exist without commentary or judgment from others. • I have a right to relationships that are balanced and reciprocated regardless of the type of connection it comes from. • I have the right to have seasons of growth and development and to take as long as I need to get through those seasons. • I have a right to relax and to be what others would perceive as lazy. I have a right to just be and not do. • I have a right to take the time and space I need for anything in this life. • I have a right to process any grief, loss, or adjustment at the rate that feels comfortable for me. • I have a right to meaningful connections, which are based on bonding and nurturing instead of fixing and controlling. • I have a right to eliminate should statements out of my vocabulary as they only place unneeded pressures on me. • I have a right to have darkness, shadows, imperfections, and weaknesses without judgment from myself. Rather, I just notice them. • I have a right to not be perfect by what society’s standards say and to define my own definition of what feels aligned and right for me. • I have a right to my beliefs, spiritually, politically, culturally, and to allow myself to grow, expand, clarify, connect, and strengthen my beliefs over this lifetime. • I have a right to not always do the right or just thing. • I have a right to my human experience of what or who I was born as (religiously, culturally, and in other ways) and to learn as I grow, age, and develop, without being shunned for that experience or told that I must change that right now. • I have the right to have connections that make me feel emotionally and physically safe, validated, seen, and heard. • I have the right to have a healthy mindset and relationship with my human body or vessel throughout the fluctuations of change. • I have a right to have my compassion and to discern if I give it and whom I give it to. • I have a right to discern whom or if I forgive. • I have a right to play no matter what age I am. I have a right to carve time out in my life for that play. • I have a right to define what purpose means to me and to change this as I see fit in a fluid way across my life. • I have a right to explore, create, and engage in my multi passions. • I have a right to emotional, physical, and spiritual safety. • I have a right to set boundaries at any given point in my life and to constantly discern and reassess this process as I go. • I have a right to walk away from things, people, and places that are no longer supportive of my well-being. • I have a right to take breaks from things, people, and places that are no longer supportive of my well-being. • I have a right to assert, honor, and feel my feelings. I have a right to be in connections that honor one other in this way. • I have a right to not feel my heart is hardened or to be bitter by the judgments I have held regarding others. I have a right to release those judgments. • I have a right to define and redefine what love is to me across my life span. • I have a right to trust my own intuition over any of society’s structures or belief systems. • I have a right to release control and outcomes and just be. I have all these rights, and everyone else on this planet does too. I also have the right to do these things without judgment or commentary from others, and everyone else does too.