What is a Soulgasm anyway? The term ‘Soulgasm’ simply means feeling your immense Love, Joy, Aliveness, Laughter, and all other positive qualities, that give you an experience that can’t be expressed with words. But I must at least try to pique your interest the best I can. It’s kind of like anything else that can’t be conveyed with words. If you’ve never tasted a mango, it would be impossible to use words to give you the experience of what it tastes like. But one bite, and you instantly know.
It's that way with your Soul’s Love. I can say things like ‘hey, this is the most Love, Joy and Aliveness you’ve EVER experienced! Your body vibrates, tingles, your senses reel with Soulgasmic bliss, and there’s not one smidge of anything negative…no fear, hate, loneliness, or anything. And in an instant you have the direct experience of who you really are…and you fall madly, completely, and deeply in Love with yourself in such a profound way that it sticks with you forever more.’ That still does not convey the actual experience, but hopefully it helps!
Words lead you to the experience by giving focus and intention. When you say something like ‘I want to feel a Soulgasm’, you decide to experience that, even if you don’t at that moment. You keep doing it until you do. It starts the ball rolling.
Once you feel it, you know how good you can feel! This is its own reward, like no other…and there’s more! You will get to a point when every time you say/intend to feel your Love, you will! This leads to attracting what you want in life and ‘having it all’. That’s what feeling a Soulgasm can do for you!
For example, your health becomes vibrant, and any health issues become resolved one way or another. What I mean by that is your natural healing power may do it, or you might be led to a doctor or professional that helps resolve it. The bottom line is that you have lasting vibrant health. When you become more connected to your Self, a whole new world opens. One that’s always been there, and always will be. The world of your Higher Self, which is eternal. Just because you’ve forgotten it, doesn’t mean it’s not there. You are not becoming Love; you are remembering you ARE Love.
Another example is money. When you feel more Love, you attract more money.
And fulfilling relationships too! When you receive your Soul’s Love, which is internal, you are able to receive external things as well. It’s that simple. Not always easy, but simple. But life isn’t easy anyway. We want it to be. But if you’re honest with yourself, life is a lot of challenging stuff we must deal with, large and small. But when you move in the direction of your Higher Self helping you, life does become easier, happier, and more flowing. ACIM teaches you can feel either Love or fear. You can make a decision to feel more Love.
Since you cannot feel Love and fear at the same time, it makes sense to feel Love more. It’s not about ignoring the fear and negative feelings and beliefs that you have. Addressing them is part of how you release them. More on that in the chapter on True Forgiveness. The point is that you have two basic choices for your life. One is Love. The other is fear. Fear has various manifestations – guilt, hate, anger/attack, loneliness, isolation, depression, etc…anything negative. Love also has ‘flavors’ and variations – Joy, Peace, Laughter, Wholeness, Fun, anything positive.
The challenge we face as humans, is that we’ve forgotten about Soul’s Love. We only know ego’s version of love, which really isn’t true Love. It’s very conditional. It can turn on others and yourself at any moment. Think about it. Do you Love yourself unconditionally? No matter what, with who are right now, and where you are in life? Or do you constantly judge yourself? Most of us do, so be gentle with yourself. Funny how we judge ourselves for judging ourselves! That’s because we haven’t learned who we really are. If you felt your True Self, you’d know Real Love in an instant. My purpose in life is to help you feel this and have a ‘Soulgasm’ anytime and wake up to the truth of who you really are.
Here is why I believe that is crucial for everyone and our planet. I have directly experienced my Higher Self many times during my adult life. And I’m here to say, if everyone had even a small taste of it, they would feel more Love, Joy, Peace, Laughter, Abundance…and all positive qualities, than they believed possible! Think about that! If people were more in touch with that eternal Self, the natural effects would be that they’d be more Loving towards themselves, and therefore others.
People need their Soul’s Love because the result of being disconnected from it creates fear, hate, and a woundedness that causes people to attack each other, hate each other, and fear each other. The extreme manifestations of this are all the horrible things that happen – murder, rape, war, and genocide to name a few. In short, if you truly Love yourself, respect yourself, and honor yourself, you’re going to do the same towards others. It’s just that simple. Not always easy, but simple. In other words, Loving yourself with Soul’s Love helps the world beyond measure.