Be a Woman

Capturing Mr. Right Never fall in love before he does. BANG, the moment you give your heart the whole relation will fall apart. Men in their nature are hunters, they like to chase women, they play chess, and go hunting so don’t take this privilege away from them. Let them feel they’re after you, don’t open up and tell him too much about yourself. Be mysterious – be funny, humor is the key to getting away with so many things. You need to invest in your brain to be clever and witty. Men love intelligent women so be seductive but feminine, not vulgar. They love those that take care of themselves, manicure and specially pedicure; the toes of a woman are either a turn on or a turn off for a man. The smell is also a very important factor, you should always smell nice, wear perfume and shower as much as possible. Too much make up is also a turn off, be beautiful inside out, you have to know when to talk and when to listen. Be Charismatic To start with, you need to work on yourself because it is you who is going to change, not your boyfriend nor your husband or anyone around you. You cannot expect your environment surrounding you to become different whilst you are doing the same thing again and again. Try to accept them the way they are. Love yourself, you should always come first. This does not mean that you are selfish but give priority to yourself, then give everyone else the time you can afford without draining yourself. If you keep giving away all your time, you will get exhausted at the end of the day and that might lead to misery, unhappiness and depression. Married life Marriage is the worst contract that has ever been made. Imagine two people coming from different backgrounds living in the same place forever. People used to die in their 40s, easy. Now people live until 80 and 90. Imagine living with the same person for 70 years, night and day. Routine is number one killer for the brain. You have to work really hard to maintain a relationship so that it lasts. Don’t get me wrong, marriage is nice, and having kids is a big joy, but you need to keep working on it for the rest of your life to keep the relationship going. It really is hard work, but doable. Communication Beside trust and respect, which is crucial in a relationship, communication is very important. The worst thing you can do to yourself is to suffer alone. What happens is that you start building up and one small thing will make you explode, and your man will have no clue why you are angry. Is it very hard to bring two people from different backgrounds and put them together. Maybe you are introverted and he is extroverted, you might be shy, delicate, emotional, and he is not. Say what you feel, he is not a magician to guess, that if he leaves the toothpaste open he will drive you crazy. Advice: simplify your life as much as possible. What bothers you now, will It bother you in ten years? So learn to let go, not with anger, get it out of your system. * Celebrate this event called life, because those who don’t believe in magic will never find it, believe in miracles and it will happen trust me. I don’t dream of living a better life than what I am living now. God will always send you signals, do you stop and listen? The universe is always communicating with us, are you aware of it? We are too busy immersed in our chaotic life style. Every new day is another chance to change your life. * A garden and a library that’s all you need to satisfy your soul. * “You are right” is the best answer to end an argument with an ignorant person. But by nature women talk a lot so remember by talking you are only repeating what you already know, but if you listen you may learn something new. * Life is unpredictable and full of incidents. Nothing is stable except change, so no expectations. * Look around, the divorce rate has gone up so much, don’t let the relationship deteriorate keep working on it. * Don’t give up, believe in yourself be like a bulldozer. * If you are tired, rest and start again. Fill yourself with power, as someone said, “power is a great aphrodisiac”. * Make peace of mind your priority, life is about the journey, not the destination, let your journey be pleasant. * Every day will affect you in a way or another. Even a traffic ticket will affect your health. You have to learn to let go. * Intimacy Intimacy brings two people together. * If you want to have a happy marriage make time for your intimate life. You need to make an effort to maintain a healthy intimate life. Some women use intimate life as a bargaining tool. This is a bad idea; it is not healthy for your relationship to choose intimate life as a weapon to hurt him. * Stay still every now and then so you can reconnect with reality. Each time you do, takes you a small step towards rebalancing your life and reconnecting with who or what you are really aiming at. * Be Transparent. If you want to be trusted, be willing to share everything. Honesty is a very important pillar in a relationship. Once it is broken, it can never be regained. Prayers Prayers are the language of the soul. The best thing in life is to say a prayer before bedtime and when you wake up in the morning. When you feel yourself becoming impatient remind yourself that the present situation will change and pray for it then take action. Prayer is our powerful contact with the greatest force in the universe.