My male client sat before me, arms crossed and told me straight up, “I am a skeptic, my wife came and saw you and I thought that you must have tricked her in some way so I have come to see for myself”. In my mind I thought, all right then, we better make this a good one! In contrast to his hard demeanor, I could sense that this man held a lot of pain inside of him and that he was really very sensitive. I knew his manner was only a front, an invisible barrier he had placed around himself to protect his heart, regardless of this knowing, he sat there looking intimidating and very uncomfortable.
I have been doing my spiritual work for over two decades now and for the past 11 years as part of my full time professional business so I have learnt not to take this kind of reaction personally, how he was feeling really had nothing to do with me.
When I tuned in for this man, the spirit of his deceased father came straight in and told me things there was no way I could have known including all of the emotional turmoil my client was holding onto. Through his soul lessons I helped him see how this was affecting his life today and how his behavior and interactions with others was being dictated by it.
This closed off, stiff man sitting before me started to cry. He grabbed some tissues from the box on my desk and apologised for sobbing, his body language changed and he transformed into the person I knew was in there somewhere, his unguarded authentic self, someone he was desperately trying to hide and keep hidden from me and most probably a lot of others.
Why do we hide our true selves? I am sure you, just like me would prefer to come into contact with this man’s true self instead of the defensive person he presented with. Wouldn’t the world be a much better place if we could all show up without our emotional armour?
We show up like this because we are protecting ourselves from others and the perceived emotional threat they may cause us. This inadvertently disconnects us from others and our true and authentic self and its hard work. Its hard work to always keep yourself guarded. To show up how you perceive others want you to be or show up trying to be who you think you should be. It just too dam hard trying to keep everyone else happy, let alone yourself, isn’t it? But, what is far worse than this, is that in the protecting ourselves we can actually create the circumstances we are trying to protect ourselves from, through our own perceptions and behaviour. If you are repeating a negative life pattern over and over again then you are creating them and it’s time to understand how and why.
The reason you’ve been missing this is the same reason most people are missing it, because most people don’t know how to make conscious contact with their inner world and understand their own emotional lessons, filters, patterns and behaviours. Therefore, nothing changes and these lessons just keep showing up through life’s issues creating cycles of frustration, anxiety, fear, anger and relationship problems.
There is a huge bonus to learning and doing this work, it will also make you more intuitive and connected to more than your eyes can see. However, this is not just about being intuitive, it’s so much more than that, it will give you the ability to know and accept yourself, and help you find your true purpose in life so that you can follow your own pathway in the light of who you truly came here to be.
Alrighty then, are you ready? Let’s learn more about what it really means to be you…
Everything you ever needed to know for you to be happier with yourself and your life has been right there in front of you all along. Your life and its circumstances have been trying to show you what you’re missing every time your emotional buttons are pushed. If you’ve had enough of repeating the same old patterns time and time again, then The Lessons of Love and Life can take you on a deep inner journey through your unique spiritual profile to identify, heal, and change all that is keeping self-love and happiness from you.
The Lessons of Love and Life is the ultimate self-transformational book to assist you in knowing and changing yourself from the inside out. Self-empowerment activist and spiritual profiler Julie Kay will take you on a spiritual journey to awaken you to your soul lessons and the hidden behaviors, emotional filters, and daily patterns that have been affecting your life and relationships.
You will learn how to overcome any lack of self-love, learn how to consciously connect to your own spirit so you can become internally guided rather than externally motivated, and learn how to do the inner work necessary to find and execute your purpose in life.
The Lessons of Love and Life is an easy-to-understand book for beginners yet full of wisdom for the more advanced souls. This is not a “think positive and you will be happy” type of book. It will deeply penetrate the surface of your being to help you reveal and eliminate all that has been negatively affecting your life.
Are you ready for the ultimate inside job?
About the Author
Julie Kay describes herself as a light crusader and self-empowerment activist. Julie has worked professionally for over two decades as a psychic medium and spiritual profiler, and she has been teaching metaphysical wisdom for over twelve years. In an age where personal fulfilment and a greater ownership of our own happiness are sought, Julie’s sole purpose has been to empower herself and others in expanding this awareness of self-understanding and accountability through consciously connecting to our own inner world and spirit.
As a naturally enthusiastic entrepreneur with a humanitarian heart, Julie is also an inspiring author. She has also published The Missing Link (2007), Soul Lessons to Soul Mate (2013), and Life after Life Communication, 3nd Edition (2015). Julie has written and facilitated over twenty intuitive and spiritual development workshops, including the highly regarded three-day, live-in Shift Sanctuary Program in northern NSW, a program that launched in 2013 as the Love Life Retreats and has already changed the lives of many in a profound and lasting way.
When Julie is not travelling for personal appointments and workshops, she can be found on the beautiful Gold Coast in Australia. A devotee of sun, sand, and surf, Julie loves to come home to Queensland to relax and reconnect to her loving family and fabulous friends.
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