Life Reviews / Love Reviews
How I Reached Out to the Love of my Deceased Family and Became Their Confidante... Til Death Do Us Part Does Not Have to Exist Anymore
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I remember being seven years old and crying myself to sleep several nights in a row. I had just come to the stone cold realization that my parents would not live forever and it was very upsetting to me. I remember lying there thinking about what happens to us when we die. Do we just turn into nothing? Do we just not exist anymore? Do we not think anymore? How is that possible? It was all too much for my young mind to fathom, so I just kept my fears to myself and hugged my pillow tight, crying myself to sleep. I am now much older and recently orphaned. Having lost both my parents and two siblings, those forty-year-old questions came back to haunt me. So, instead of crying myself to sleep and hugging my pillow tight, I decided to do some research and a bit of soul-searching to figure out what I believe in. I’d like to take you with me on my journey; one of deep sorrow, skepticism, wonder, love, peace, joy and hope. I am happy to say that I am now a believer in God, Jesus, angels, miracles, metaphysics, the afterlife, my soul family and, most importantly, the power of love. So, how can sorrow and grief turn into feelings of joy? What changed my mind? I’ll try my best to explain. Here is one of the first stories my (deceased) sister told me. She was describing Heaven to me: Heaven is love. It is like a beautiful dream that never ends and it is very much like our little milky way. I want to say that it was difficult for me to leave Earth because I had such a loving family and I missed them a lot but I needed to find a way to love myself so I could go to Heaven and be with everyone who was waiting for me. It was hard to do because I did not love myself very much but I did find a way. I died and then I became energy and it was as though I was seeing the world in a different dimension. It made me feel like a tiny little speck of dust that could float around and see everything that was going on, without realizing that I was dead. Each of my family members mentioned that their life reviews took place in a type of healing centre in Heaven and I was curious about what the healing centre consisted of so, naturally, I asked my sister if she could elaborate. Here is how she described it to me: The healing centre is an extremely loving place full of magnificent colours and globes and arrangements of oracles that can help souls understand their thoughts very well. The healers use techniques that are not used on Earth to help souls find ways to heal their emotions. It can be likened to Reiki, but it is more than that. It is like a beautiful garden of angels and colours and everyone assists the souls in trying to come to terms with what they need to learn in order to find more love in their hearts for themselves. And it is very much like a dream for a lot of souls because they have to envision their lives and they can review different areas of their lives in order to gain clarity and find a way to heal the negative emotion that is within them. So, in a nutshell, that’s what it’s like.
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If you suffer from debilitating grief, are afraid of death, curious about life after death, or simply miss your loved ones, this book is for you! By losing four members of my family and witnessing so much physical and emotional pain, suffering and grief, it made me question my beliefs as I did not want to fear death and I needed to figure out what to believe in. Through facing my life-long fears and challenging what I thought were my beliefs, I was able to open up my heart to the love of my family who predeceased me. By learning how to channel with them, I became their confidante where they relayed their very emotional life reviews to me. Many of the lessons they were to learn on Earth, they did not face until they reached Heaven and had to review their lives. They wish to share this information with people so that we can learn how to love ourselves more and realize that we do not have to fear death. Through their stories, I have learned how they had to come face-to-face with many of their lives’ difficult issues, including alcohol abuse, control issues, bulimia, jealousy, molestation, emotional abuse, abortion, adoption, dying, and what we are to learn from the grieving process. If you have experienced grief beyond words or have experienced any of the issues in your life which my family had to learn from, it is our hope that their words of wisdom will assist you in healing and finding peace. So, I invite you to open your minds and, hopefully, your hearts to my words and those of my beautiful family, and let your healing begin. With love from Wendy and blessings from Lori, Jack, Sandra and Peter.
About the Author
Wendy McCoy was born and raised in the small northern Ontario city of North Bay where she currently resides with her two children. After college, her interest in business administration led her to Ottawa, Ontario, where she worked for the federal government for many years. In 1995, she decided to move back to her home town in order to start a family of her own and to be closer to her parents and siblings. She has since worked in the education field and the mining industry in North Bay. Wendy is also a visual artist who enjoys creating symbolic spiritual art, has received Level I Reiki training, and is an advocate for energy healing.