Relationship Reminders
Practical Guidance for Conscious Relating
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Love Your Self
To experience Love in our relationships, we must experience Love within ourselves.
To receive the Love we give, we must remember to give this Love to ourselves.
Where we feel neglected, disrespected, unseen, unsupported and unloved, we must first to heal our relationship with ourselves.
Clear your unconscious programming with these affirmations. Say, write and meditate on them daily.
Stop when you truly experience Love for yourself.
Change the exact words to apply specifically to you.
I forgive myself for putting others first.
I forgive myself for neglecting my own needs.
I now give myself what is Best for me.
What is best for me benefits others.
I love, trust and respect myself.
Love works through my thoughts, words and deeds.
I am healed, whole and holy.
I am willing to listen and follow the Voice Within.
All things work together for Good.
I learn from everyone as everyone learns from me.
I am blessed, as I bless everyone, including myself.
I am created by Love to express Love and live in Love.
Love Is Our Work
Unconditional Love heals, creates, nourishes and sustains life.
How do we grow unconditional Love in us?
When we forget, ignore, withhold or diminish Love, we feel guilty and seek to judge and blame. When others forget, ignore, withhold or diminish Love, we may feel hurt, angry, defensive or devalued.
In either case, whether we forget or they forget, we must forgive immediately. We must demonstrate with our thoughts and prayers, our words and affirmation, our deeds and acts of kindness that we remember to Love Unconditionally.
Our work is to remember Love.
Our work is to extend Love.
Our work is to exalt Love.
Our work is to live in Love.
Encourage Love in your mind and heart.
Appreciate Love both in yourself and in others.
Give Love freely to everyone at all times.
Let your Love Light shine with Joy and Gratitude.
This is our true vocation: to return to our Natural State—
Unconditional Love.
Real Love
What is Love? Real Love.
Only Love is real, everything else illusion.
Love heals. Fear hurts.
Love succeeds. Fear fails.
Love persists. Fear quits.
Love answers. Fear asks.
Love fulfills. Fear depletes.
Love needs nothing… Fear needs everything.
Love is patient. Fear is impatient.
Love believes. Fear doubts.
Love trusts. Fear suspects.
Love frees. Fear limits.
Love unites. Fear divides.
Love is willing Fear is demanding.
Love accepts. Fear judges.
Love forgives. Fear condemns.
What is fear?
Fear is the absence of Love.
Fear is the call for love.
Fear is the experience of separation from Love.
What is Love?
Love is all that is real and lasting, changeless and eternal.
Love is All.
Important Gifts of Love
What is most important to give to those we love?
Trust Trust in their process of learning.
Respect Treat them as we would want.
Freedom Give them space to explore.
Patience Give them time to learn.
Openness Listen to their true feelings.
Forgiveness Easily release their mistakes.
Support Believe in their dreams.
Truth Be honest and open in your truth.
Kindness Be gentle in how you speak.
Gratitude Appreciate their Goodness.
Everyone is a Spiritual Being having a human existence with their unique history, memories, hopes and fears, strengths and areas of needed learning.
Everyone deserves to live and love, learn and laugh, let go and begin again.
You are the One who gives yourself these opportunities first.
When you are loving you, you can love everyone equally with the Highest gifts of love you know.
As you love others fully and freely, both you and they will heal and be blessed with boundless Love..
Loving Is A Way of Life
Loving is a way of life.
Loving is a spiritual discipline.
Loving is the way to peace and happiness.
Loving is our reason for being here.
Loving is the way home.
Loving is a committed connection to Spirit.
Loving is conscious thoughts, words and deeds.
Loving is a lifetime vocation.
Loving is a choice, the choice to be Real.
Loving is freeing yourself and trusting yourself.
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When I am loving, I am grateful.
If I cannot be grateful, I forgive myself for forgetting.
When I am grateful, I experience more to be grateful for.
When I forget, I see false evidence of my ingratitude. Complaining is the lazy way to live.
Gratitude requires conscious commitment to Love.
Gratitude invites taking responsibility for limited perception.
I forgive myself for limiting my perception.
I forgive myself for forgetting to be grateful.
I forgive forgetting to bless everything with my Love.
I forgive my limited perceiving and bless my world.
As I forgive my limited perception, I am grateful.
I am willing to remember always and only to Love.
Love Is Freedom and Trust
I love you
and I know you love me, too.
LOVE IS FREEDOM
the freedom for you and I to be who we are,
the freedom to live life as we do,
the freedom to make mistakes and learn from them,
the freedom to express our own truth as we see it.
LOVE IS TRUST
the trust that there is a constant flow of love,
no matter what,
the trust that in spite of life’s problems,
we believe in & support each other’s right to live as we choose,
the trust that in adversity
there is healing and learning and gifts of love,
the trust that under conflict & emotional expression,
there is always love.
I love you and I trust you and
I free you to be all you are.
To experience Love in our relationships, we must experience Love within ourselves.
To receive the Love we give, we must remember to give this Love to ourselves.
Where we feel neglected, disrespected, unseen, unsupported and unloved, we must first to heal our relationship with ourselves.
Clear your unconscious programming with these affirmations. Say, write and meditate on them daily.
Stop when you truly experience Love for yourself.
Change the exact words to apply specifically to you.
I forgive myself for putting others first.
I forgive myself for neglecting my own needs.
I now give myself what is Best for me.
What is best for me benefits others.
I love, trust and respect myself.
Love works through my thoughts, words and deeds.
I am healed, whole and holy.
I am willing to listen and follow the Voice Within.
All things work together for Good.
I learn from everyone as everyone learns from me.
I am blessed, as I bless everyone, including myself.
I am created by Love to express Love and live in Love.
Love Is Our Work
Unconditional Love heals, creates, nourishes and sustains life.
How do we grow unconditional Love in us?
When we forget, ignore, withhold or diminish Love, we feel guilty and seek to judge and blame. When others forget, ignore, withhold or diminish Love, we may feel hurt, angry, defensive or devalued.
In either case, whether we forget or they forget, we must forgive immediately. We must demonstrate with our thoughts and prayers, our words and affirmation, our deeds and acts of kindness that we remember to Love Unconditionally.
Our work is to remember Love.
Our work is to extend Love.
Our work is to exalt Love.
Our work is to live in Love.
Encourage Love in your mind and heart.
Appreciate Love both in yourself and in others.
Give Love freely to everyone at all times.
Let your Love Light shine with Joy and Gratitude.
This is our true vocation: to return to our Natural State—
Unconditional Love.
Real Love
What is Love? Real Love.
Only Love is real, everything else illusion.
Love heals. Fear hurts.
Love succeeds. Fear fails.
Love persists. Fear quits.
Love answers. Fear asks.
Love fulfills. Fear depletes.
Love needs nothing… Fear needs everything.
Love is patient. Fear is impatient.
Love believes. Fear doubts.
Love trusts. Fear suspects.
Love frees. Fear limits.
Love unites. Fear divides.
Love is willing Fear is demanding.
Love accepts. Fear judges.
Love forgives. Fear condemns.
What is fear?
Fear is the absence of Love.
Fear is the call for love.
Fear is the experience of separation from Love.
What is Love?
Love is all that is real and lasting, changeless and eternal.
Love is All.
Important Gifts of Love
What is most important to give to those we love?
Trust Trust in their process of learning.
Respect Treat them as we would want.
Freedom Give them space to explore.
Patience Give them time to learn.
Openness Listen to their true feelings.
Forgiveness Easily release their mistakes.
Support Believe in their dreams.
Truth Be honest and open in your truth.
Kindness Be gentle in how you speak.
Gratitude Appreciate their Goodness.
Everyone is a Spiritual Being having a human existence with their unique history, memories, hopes and fears, strengths and areas of needed learning.
Everyone deserves to live and love, learn and laugh, let go and begin again.
You are the One who gives yourself these opportunities first.
When you are loving you, you can love everyone equally with the Highest gifts of love you know.
As you love others fully and freely, both you and they will heal and be blessed with boundless Love..
Loving Is A Way of Life
Loving is a way of life.
Loving is a spiritual discipline.
Loving is the way to peace and happiness.
Loving is our reason for being here.
Loving is the way home.
Loving is a committed connection to Spirit.
Loving is conscious thoughts, words and deeds.
Loving is a lifetime vocation.
Loving is a choice, the choice to be Real.
Loving is freeing yourself and trusting yourself.
***********************************
When I am loving, I am grateful.
If I cannot be grateful, I forgive myself for forgetting.
When I am grateful, I experience more to be grateful for.
When I forget, I see false evidence of my ingratitude. Complaining is the lazy way to live.
Gratitude requires conscious commitment to Love.
Gratitude invites taking responsibility for limited perception.
I forgive myself for limiting my perception.
I forgive myself for forgetting to be grateful.
I forgive forgetting to bless everything with my Love.
I forgive my limited perceiving and bless my world.
As I forgive my limited perception, I am grateful.
I am willing to remember always and only to Love.
Love Is Freedom and Trust
I love you
and I know you love me, too.
LOVE IS FREEDOM
the freedom for you and I to be who we are,
the freedom to live life as we do,
the freedom to make mistakes and learn from them,
the freedom to express our own truth as we see it.
LOVE IS TRUST
the trust that there is a constant flow of love,
no matter what,
the trust that in spite of life’s problems,
we believe in & support each other’s right to live as we choose,
the trust that in adversity
there is healing and learning and gifts of love,
the trust that under conflict & emotional expression,
there is always love.
I love you and I trust you and
I free you to be all you are.
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Book Details
Language :
English
Publication Date :
7/28/2012
Format :
Softcover
Dimensions :
6x9
Page Count :
178
ISBN :
9781452552026
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About the Book
Relationship Reminders offers practical and inspirational guidance for those desiring more meaningful, harmonious, and healthy relationships with partner, family, friends, and business colleagues. I sit at my computer each morning, writing and sharing what I hear within, without any editing. This book is a collection of those loving reminders, which encourage healing all relationships with respect, trust, encouragement, and appreciation.
About the Author
Betty Lue Lieber, PhD, MFT has counseled, coached, and taught thousands of couples in her thirty-five years as a marriage and family therapist. Using practical and spiritual tools for conscious relating and effective communication, her approach is direct and concise, brief and solution-oriented, always seeking what will work for each individual. She is empathic and intuitive, inspiring and creative, in her therapeutic coaching and counseling and her writing. Her twenty seven- year spiritual partnership and marriage, family, colleagues and friendships are filled with respect, appreciation, freedom, and trust. Living what she teaches, Betty Lue lives a fulfilled life, serving all she encounters.