Chaos Loves You

Yes, all the gurus and healers and even scientists preach that we must all get to a state of peace within ourselves. And, yes that is true IF the majority of time we allow ourselves to be in a state of dismal chaos. However, how boring would your life be if it was as still as waveless water forever? In fact, that is nearly impossible AND not necessary. Your mind was DESIGNED for chaos. You were born into chaos. The world was formed due to chaos. So, would you rather keep trying to get rid of it and go insane because it keeps following you around? OR, do you want to EMBRACE it and make the best use of it for your own good, and maybe even use it for your own inner power? So, let’s talk about how I look at the different chaos wave types. Yes my dear Chaos Busters. There indeed are different types of chaos. Let’s get a little deeper with our friend Chaos here. Chaos follows you home. It comes into the office with you. It is right there as you get into an argument with your spouse. And it just keeps getting bigger and bigger. AAHHHHHHHH! Why can’t it just go away?? Well, I’m sorry, Chaos loves you, so until we learn to love it back, it ain’t going anywhere. Let’s take a look at how Tsunami Chaos (otherwise called Ugly Chaos) could be manifesting for you. It could be a feeling of low self worth, or not knowing how to love yourself or maybe even questioning the concept of Tsunami Chaos itself. Just take a moment and take a deep, long breath…...and let it out. Take another deep, long, breath, and let it out. There is a lighthouse nestled on the shore. Remember this: you are in the right place. You found this book. Now, how about the Rip Tide Chaos (otherwise called the Bad Chaos)? These are the invisible forces around us that we are not even aware. These forces simply add to our chaos. But, the good news is that small, simple fixes can easily help you get rid of the Rip Tide chaos. Let me give you an example. Did you know the type of clothes you wear could be affecting the chaos in your life? Or what about the artwork you have on your walls? Believe it or not, a simple picture that you thought looked nice on the wall could actually be deterring you energetically from achieving your goals. For example, let’s say you want to find a loving partner, but you have a painting of a desert on your bedroom wall with a single tree in the middle of the canvas. You thought it looked serene and nice. Simply having that painting in your bedroom and looking at it every day could be keeping you from getting the relationship you want. Why? Because without even realizing it, you’re attracting loneliness into your life. You may think it is serene, but it is a desert...hot...dry...vast...and the tree is the only thing standing out on the canvas. It is alone, as are you. Without even realizing it, you’re attracting the very thing you’re trying to avoid. So, there’s the Ugly Chaos waves, and the Bad Chaos waves. Is there such a thing as Good Chaos waves? Absolutely. Good Chaos waves are the waves that you want to invite in. By now you may be thinking “Jothi, chaos sounds pretty bad. Why would I ever want to invite chaos into my life?” Well, as you may have guessed, not all waves are created equal. Therefore, not all chaos is created equal as well. Surfer waves are the waves we chase. They are the perfect blend of excitement and exhilaration with just the right amount of scary. These are the Good Chaos waves. Trust me on this. I get I am going against most coaches and even other gurus or principles when I say this. Yes, we first must strive to get our ocean of life to that early morning state of serenity and peace. HOWEVER, we cannot allow ourselves to just stay there forever. In fact, if we do, and we don’t rise up to reach for the Good Chaos waves, we will at some point become lazy and too comfortable with ourselves. We will slide into an empty-minded state, and catapult back toward Bad or even Ugly Chaos. We must expand our comfort zones and live to think beyond what you believe is possible. Most people believe that any type of chaos is a bad thing, but, I hope you can see already that all chaos is not made the same. Chaos loves you and you are in the right place at the right time to learn how to love it back. Are you ready for real, transformational change in your life? It is time to dive in, my dear. All is well, and you are safe on this journey. Let’s ride these waves of chaos together!