Introduction
I’m known as the Burnout Slayer and Profit Accelerator. As a successful coach of entrepreneurs, I assist women to powerfully break-free from being overwhelmed and into their greatest financial abundance.
I’ve worked with women entrepreneurs from all over the country who share with me their stories of overwhelm. Over the past fifteen years, I’ve developed powerful tools and processes that are so life changing and transforming that I’ve often quickly worked myself out of a job. I’m excited to share these powerful tools with you in the following pages of this book.
Unlocking the Mystery of Women Being Overwhelmed No More
Unlocking the key to being overwhelmed no more has until now, been a mystery. You may have found yourself looking and desperately seeking answers to escape the overwhelm of your everyday reality. What you may not have known is that you have always had the keys to unlock this mystery within you already.
Overwhelmed No More! Love Yourself to Wealth is an inspirational guide brimming with empowering women’s poetry, exercises, and power affirmations you can use to discover your own answers and blaze your unique trail towards actualizing your dreams with more ease, joy and financial abundance.
The Beginning of a New Me
Keeled over on the floor, I can still remember that day as if it were yesterday… It was the worst day of my life.
Keeled over in so much pain, my hand over my heart as it broke into a thousand pieces. It felt like knives stabbing me over and over, again and again, ripping my heart apart into a million pieces. I had never felt so much pain until that terrible day.
As I lay on the plush white carpet on the bathroom floor, holding my heart, hanging on for dear life, I felt my heart break open, bleeding all over the carpet. No one could have seen the blood stains on the plush white carpet, except me. It was my pain. My heartbreak. My misery.
Feeling like an empty, hollow, shell of a person, I had nothing more to give.
I had to learn how to pick up the pieces of what was left of me and start over…from scratch.
I never felt good enough so I sought to prove to myself and the world that I was good enough.
Deep down.
I really didn’t believe it.
Being good enough is a feeling that we can only experience within ourselves. It’s not something we experience by doing. No amount of achievement or letters after our names can make us feel good enough.I thought that if I could just do enough, I would finally prove I was lovable and good enough.
Little did I know, I could never really know true love until I learned to wholeheartedly love myself first.
Getting to I’m Enough
“If you cannot find peace within yourself, you will never find it anywhere else.” -Marvin Gaye
How will we ever get to this place of “I’m enough?”
“I’m enough.”
Just two simple words.
If fully embraced could change the world…
How we feel about ourselves.
What we do.
Why we do it.
At the very essence of “I’m enough” is complete love and surrender to what is.
It’s a love of ourselves that we in turn
can give to others.
There’s no need for control or judgment.
There’s simply complete self-acceptance and gratitude for who we are.
No longer would we need to strive to prove our worthiness
for approval and acceptance.
We would not have to work endless hours
to achieve goals that in the end,
are meaningless and leave us with regret.
The energy we didn’t put into making a difference
only to have a bunch of zeros in our bank accounts
that we can’t take with us anyway.
It doesn’t matter what we do
if we don’t do it with heart
with love
with compassion...
Starting with ourselves.
That’s where the difference begins
at home
in our hearts.
When you finally embrace
wholeheartedly all that you are
“I’m enough,”
Fear will leave your side and
peace will find it’s way.
Mary’s Story
Before she came to me as a client, Mary had always made just enough to get by and sometimes had less than twenty dollars to her name. Although she was incredibly talented and had been an entrepreneur with her own business for over twenty years, love, happiness, and success eluded her. She had been married to a man she constantly had to “save” and now that she was divorced, she was ready to really live, really love, and financially prosper.
In our first session, Mary explained in painstaking detail how she wanted more money, love, and self-worth, but she had underlying fears that kept her from really stepping into the life of prosperity she truly desired. Her biggest challenge was her prevailing belief that she didn’t deserve to be happy and successful. During our work together, I supported Mary helping her to discover and understand her pattern of self-sabotage. Then I provided her with empowering coaching sessions to help her break through her fear of success and failure and belief of not being good enough. Mary also received personalized tools to assist her with coping with her fears; this included tools to shift her negative, low self-worth mindset to a success mindset, which empowered her to finally feel good enough and fill her cup to the brim with self-love.
After just a few sessions, Mary overcame her fear of success and failure. She also overcame the belief that she wasn’t good enough. This helped her to fully step into the life of prosperity she had always dreamed of. Today, she is a highly sought-after coach with a waiting list of clients lined up to work with her! Imagine how delighted I was to find out that a few months later, Mary was also enjoying beautiful bliss and deep connection with the love of her life and soul mate.