For most of my life, I was trying to play a role that others thought I should: middle-class, subservient, housewife. That so isn’t me! Too bad it took me 50 years of hell to discover the authentic me—a kick-ass, businesswoman.
I married five times, starting at 14, expecting to be contented and fulfilled. Instead, the men I loved betrayed me.
Born with a deformed right arm, I expected to work for minimum wage, ($6,000/year in 1973) and did. Then, at 27 I got a real estate license and earned $5,000 my first month. When I learned that only 5% of agents in the nation made that much, I went into a state of panic, as if something terrible was about to happen to me. It was as if an alarm sounded in my head, “This isn’t right! Just who do you think you are anyway? Why, you only have a 9th grade education, you’re dumb. You’re too young! Stop this act before someone finds out you’re a fraud!” Consequently, in the next 11 months I only earned $1000, putting my income right at minimum wage. I ended up homeless with an 11-year-old daughter.
After six months of helpless and hopeless, I got my groove back, and had another $5k month, followed immediately by panic and self-sabotage. Over and over, I’d achieve higher and higher heights, then crash and burn. From Top Producing Agent to homeless; from Acclaimed Sales Trainer to food stamps, from $300,000 a year to bankruptcy, foreclosure and couch surfing; from the ‘World Who’s Who of Women’ to has-been.
I had no idea I was cursed with a debilitating, unconscious fear of success and wealth, and serious doubt about my self-worth—a belief that I was not lovable, that caused me to self-destruct. It took me decades to change my false self-expectations so I could start to allow success, affluence, and love into my world. Now, in the time it takes to read this book, I’ll help you transform your life too. The 36 TRANSFORMATION EXPLORATIONS will enable you to find your own blocks, your values, your passionate purpose and your authentic self.
Once you uncover your unconscious beliefs and expectations about wealth, love, and life, you can change them forever.
Do you feel unfulfilled, longing to find your true PASSION AND PURPOSE? You will be guided through a process to find it.
Are you experiencing a BREAKDOWN RIGHT NOW? Do you feel helpless, hopeless, and worthless? Are you really ready to change? Yours will be a dramatic transformation. Fasten your seat belt!
Or, maybe YOU’RE STUCK. You know you are playing too small and are ready to break through your success blocks. Hallelujah! You came to the right place.
Are you playing a role that is NOT THE AUTHENTIC YOU? Have you been sabotaging your wealth and success (and maybe love)? Here are a few symptoms:
- Not charging what you’re worth
- You’re good at what you do, but wealth & success still elude you
- You feel frustrated and discontented
- Not collecting money that is owed you.
- Attracting abusive partners or employers
- Just not playing full out
- The 'fraud syndrome'- Not feeling worthy.
Let me show you how to:
- ALIGN YOUR VISION WITH YOUR VALUES
- KNOW THAT YOU’RE LOVABLE AND PERFECT just the way you are
- Have the COURAGE TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR OWN DESTINY, whether that means leaving a dysfunctional relationship or job, or stepping up to your purpose so you can share your gifts with the world
- Become FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT DOING WHAT YOU LOVE.
- Find your PASSION AND PURPOSE and start living the life you deserve.
Carole lives in Campbell, CA with the love of her life, who she married when she was 50, and their Chi-Pom, Chili. She loves ballroom dancing, chess, history, travel, piano bar singing, and helping women transform their lives.